House Rules

Treat people well, even when you’re not into them.

Meet people with an open mind. Respect the names and pronouns they share, and make room for different bodies, backgrounds and ways of living. A little warmth and consideration in how we speak to each other helps people feel welcome here.

Be real. Your photos, your vibes, your intentions.

Come here with honest intentions. Be straightforward about what you’re looking for and take an interest in what the other person wants too. Whether you meet once or keep seeing each other, treat their time and trust with care.

Consent is a clear yes. Keep checking in as things change.

Make room for everyone to say what they want and feel comfortable changing their mind. Ask before sharing something intimate and check in as things develop. A yes should be freely given by someone who understands and can choose what they’re agreeing to. If you’re unsure, pause and ask.

Share what you’re comfortable with. Keep what others share to yourself.

Take your time deciding what to share and with whom. Treat someone’s private photos, messages and personal details as something they’ve trusted you with. Let them choose who else gets to see what they’re sharing, including the fact that they’re here. Expect the same treatment from others.

See something off? Report it, even if it isn’t happening to you.

Let us know if you experience or witness something concerning. You can report without confronting anyone or deciding which rule applies, and we encourage you to use reporting to help better our community as opposed to just blocking someone. Share what you know and leave the review to us, you don’t have to handle it alone.